Grow strong in weakness

On Pursuing The Passion the author got to see that life is tricky.

In life people may encounter so many loose ends, so many torn relationships that need not be knotted, but resown. {Warning: This Blog Struggles To Form Sense.} We all would like to live in nice places under good conditions, not growing weak, but becoming strong and being noticed.

The writer thinks

Life  itself doesn’t honour us with much in the way of praise for each small accomplishment. Not a lot of checked off boxes.
We usually have to go out of our way to check off those boxes. We usually have to put life on hold to cross off those boxes.

So why so obsessed sweetheart? Why so un-content? {Type/aside}

When we look around us we can find people who had bad luck in their life. There may be many where tragedy struck down and could not have their degree completed. Other may have earned some good title, but suddenly, by accident, they lost everything and have to start live all over again.

It is lovely when such bad luck comes over them that they could consider those previous years of study and work not as a waste because through it all they could be enjoying, embracing, and growing.

No day is a waste. That’s the ultimate goal. But maybe its not so much what you accomplish each day that determines whether or not time has been ‘wasted’, but rather how much you have enjoyed. Working your dream career or as an IHop hostess does it really matter?

This could be a good lesson for us. Perhaps it is not so much what we accomplish each day, what is going to determine whether we succeeded, used our time of being here well, or just wasted our time. Though many of us may waste a lot of time on our way in life, we should be continually looking, but looking for what?

We should spend time in looking for a good way to install ourselves in this world full of friction. We should try to make a “ruwe bolster” or “blanke pit”,a good strong shell. Each person in this world has to make his rough diamond into a shiny strong stone, and not being a soft husk.

Every day we do have to work at our selves. Many Christians who call themselves reborn do think that once they have found Christ, call themselves ‘reborn‘, got baptised, their work will be finished and they will be saved for ever. To my regret, I do have to disappoint them. I do have to tell them they are not yet halfway. They are only at the beginning of a new way, but luckily they have found already the best way to follow. But they should know that there are many deviations on that road as well, and they still might take the wrong turn.

The trick of life does want to lure us and wants to lead us up the garden path. We shall feel the strong winds of the trucks, the heavy lorries we pass, the many persons who want to fool us, deluding us with lovely words and promises. Every day again we shall have to make choices. Over and over again we shall have to make new decisions. It will not end until we do find an end to our life, and than everything shall be finished for us, while the others shall continue their own way.

In case we are not careful and would continuously be worried about what we should do or continue to look back “what we have done” we perhaps will not see the light behind the smog. We shall be so busy “making something of our life” that we may forget living that life. Lots of people do think they might buy time and they might buy their way to a prosperous life.

Time isn’t money. Whatever you don’t accomplish today, you can try again tomorrow, but please just remember to live.

Live today, live tomorrow, see what good happens to you and do not concentrate on the bad things that happened to you. Looking back onto what went wrong shall only make you blind, while you have the fog-lights shining in front of you. Step into the footlights, shine and be happy. Share that happiness while you count your blessings. Do not forget that you are here in this world to be yourself and to develop yourself. Make use of it and let others share you. Be the seed for yourself but also the fertiliser for others.

Know your weaknesses and use them to grow strong.

Don't be afraid to fall

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  7. If you want to go far in life
  8. Remember that who you’re being is just as important as what you’re doing
  9. Unconditional love
  10. Change
  11. It is a free will choice
  12. Your life the sum total of all your choices
  13. Thirst for happiness and meaning
  14. Suffering
  15. Suffering-through the apparent silence of God
  16. Faith and trial
  17. Suffering produces perseverance
  18. Be happy that the thorn bush has roses
  19. Just an Ordinary Day
  20. The work I do, let it be done good
  21. Frank risks taking
  22. Self-preservation is the highest law of nature
  23. Count your blessings
  24. Leaving behind the lives we have touched.
  25. Words in the world
  26. Power in the life of certain
  27. The truth is very plain to see and God can be clearly seen
  28. Choose you this day whom ye will serve
  29. Walking in love by faith not by sight
  30. No time for immorality
  31. Be Honest
  32. Honesty beginning of holiness
  33. Who are the honest ones?
  34. If you have integrity
  35. Be strong and take courage
  36. Peace Takes You
  37. Created to live in relation with God
  38. Humility and the Fear of the Lord
  39. Life in gratitude opens glory of God
  40. A Living Faith #5 Perseverance
  41. A Living Faith #6 Sacrifice
  42. A Living Faith #8 Change
  43. A Living Faith #10: Our manner of Life #2
  44. Articles about spiritual-growth on Stepping Toes
  45. Articles by Marcus Ampe concerning Life
  46. Articles About Life
  47. Articles about the Way of life
  48. The Way to life
  49. Spiritual-growth articles on Marcus’s Space
  50. Joy: Foundation for a Positive Life
  51. Memories are important
  52. End of the Bottom Line
  53. Give your worries to God
  54. God should be your hope
  55. Ask Grace to go forward
  56. God wants to be gracious to you
  57. Cosmos creator and human destiny
  58. The redemption of man by Christ Jesus
  59. Believing in God the rewarder
  60. Being religious has benefits even in this life

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  2. the detrimental cycle I call life….
  3. Hard Lessons

Peace Love WriteMake something out of life.
Give peace a chance.
Live and let live
enjoying life.

Grow strong in weakness
and help others to become strong.

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  • Are you weak and in need of God’s strength today? (cappucinosandchaos.wordpress.com)
    the good news is that God is looking for weak people.
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    We live in a performance oriented success driven society, today our culture is self-focussed (perhaps more so than in previous generations), individualistic and independent.In our culture many of us spend the first 20+ years of our life learning how to be independent and rely on ourselves. In this age of “Do It Yourself,” we seem to value the ‘strong ones’ – those people who have the natural stamina and willpower to set their minds to any goal and see it through to accomplishment. We are surrounded by messages, that you can achieve anything you set your mind to. The “Strengths Movement” has spread its own gospel: you only have to determine your areas of strength to be successful in life. And in this day of Facebook and Twitter we are bombarded with self-help news feeds stating ‘you can do it’ Don’t let anyone stop you. Live strong. And from facebook and twitter it looks like everyone has it all together, often because people ‘facebook’ their perfect life, and their online life is the edited, polished version. You see the lovely pictures of someone finishing a marathon, or someone’s holiday or family but you don’t see the stress and the mess and the toddler having a meltdown which is the reality of life. And so we live in this success oriented society.
  • We Are Weak But He is Strong (walkonwaterministries.wordpress.com)
    You get one side who always claim to be weak, yet God is so strong and we need Him to do everything. The other side implies that we do not need God because we are strong and we determine our future, but I don’t think either are true.
  • 14 years old Charisma has a beautiful much meaning name which should not bring Bad Luck (charismaivyeverettwhite.wordpress.com) and should bring her a swing-feeling of conquering the world by feeling good, knowing that bad things can happen and can be overcome, so that we can get stronger and can survive through.
  • The Power of a Grateful Heart – Weakness Gratitude (ckisler.wordpress.com) considers that even when we may do a lot of workouts we still can be very weak in our well formed body.
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    Strength, being strong, being able to “leap tall buildings with a single bound”, having others comment on how strong a person one is, along with beauty, power, riches, etc., we cultivate the importance of being strong.
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    No amount of strength training, aerobics, Zumba–those three classes about killed me, no matter how many books I read, concerts I attend, memory exercises I complete, no extended Bible study or prayer time will turn back the clock or make me Strong!
  • ~Strength in my Weakness~ (peacefulpromises.wordpress.com)
    I don’t have to give thanks for troubles, but I do need to learn from them.  Every challenge we face is an opportunity for growth.  When I choose to wallow in self-pity, I’m wasting the chance to strengthen my faith, increase my endurance and deepen my reliance on God.
  • Where You Are Weak, He Is Strong (lynvgarcia.wordpress.com)
    The only way to overcome your weakness is to rely on God’s strength. To do that, you have to stop focusing on your weaknesses. You cannot look at everything you are not. You must look at everything God is. Focus on His strength and all He is willing to do for you.
  • Perfect In Weakness (hackingagag.com)
    the sting of conviction. I easily fall into the trap of relying on my own strength and past experience to see me through the next set of trials. A “been there, done that” attitude is often my biggest hindrance. Thankfully, God loves us too much to leave us to ourselves.
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    A primary qualification for serving God with any amount of success, and for doing God’s work well and triumphantly, is a sense of our own weakness. When God’s warrior marches out to battle, strong in his own might, when he boasts, “I know that I will overcome-my own ability and my self-confidence will be enough for victory,” defeat is staring him in the face.God will not enable the man who marches in his own strength. He who reckons on victory by such means has reckoned wrongly, for “not by might, nor by power, but by my Spirit, says the LORD of hosts.”
  • Weighing in on weakness (catchjohnfischer.wordpress.com)
    The strength is imbedded in the weakness. You don’t go from one to the other (otherwise there would be strong Christians over there and weak ones over here – just what we don’t need – a spiritual hierarchy), you experience them both at the same time. That is why Paul says he delights in his weakness, because when he is weak, then he is strong. That’s not a pathway from one to the other. That is the discovery of one In the other.
  • With a Heart so Strong and a Wound so Soft (librettolove.wordpress.com)
    I thought that I was going to make a lot of money in my life, but I don’t believe that much any more.  I think I am going to be poor and I am equating that to the reason I hand myself for whenever I don’t get to do something I want in my life – I am worth less than everyone else.  I don’t quite understand why I think this.  I don’t understand why I still think this even though I know it’s untrue.  I want to run away and never hear anyone speak ever again.  I feel like sometimes, I could die and it would be a relief.  All I want is comfort and I can’t quite create a metaphorical blanket large enough to ever feel warm.  I thought that I was going to be successful.  I’ve listened to so many interviews and talked to so many people about how they got to be where they are today, and everyone says that they never expected to have the success that they did.
  • Three Ways to Manage Your Weaknesses (cperky.wordpress.com)
    Despite what you may be tempted to say in job interviews, you have weaknesses. In real life, it’s important to acknowledge the things you aren’t good at.Once you’ve taken that hard look in the mirror, here are three things you can do about what you see:

God’s Comfort

2 Corinthians 1:3

Have you noticed that the best source of comfort is someone who has struggled with pain, sorrow, or loss? That is one reason why God offers His followers the gift of comfort, so that we can, in turn, give it to others. Yes, God sometimes allows tragedy to enter our lives, but He never intends for us to go through difficult times alone.

Once we have — by God’s grace — gone through a dark time, God calls us to offer comfort to the hurting people He puts in our path. Often that comfort is our mere presence, not “right” words.

Our willingness to share the kind of comfort we have received reflects both our knowledge of our good God and our faith in Him.

And whether we are receiving or offering comfort, we can rely on the greatest Comforter of all, the Holy Spirit. Given to us by God, the Spirit is continually with us, willing to guide and empower us as we come alongside hurting people. Yes, our Redeemer-God is at work when He uses the comforted to comfort others!

Blessed be the God and Father of our Lord Jesus Christ, the Father of mercies and God of all comfort, who comforts us in all our tribulation, that we may be able to comfort those who are in any trouble, with the comfort with which we ourselves are comforted by God. For as the sufferings of Christ abound in us, so our consolation also abounds through Christ. Now if we are afflicted, it is for your consolation and salvation, which is effective for enduring the same sufferings which we also suffer. Or if we are comforted, it is for your consolation and salvation. And our hope for you is steadfast, because we know that as you are partakers of the sufferings, so also you will partake of the consolation. — 2 Corinthians 1:3–7

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Your Turn

What is your story of having found help and comfort from God during difficulty, loss of a job, relationship conflicts, or the death of a family member or other trials? Have you shared how you got through it, what helped you, what you learned, and how you grew with someone in the middle of the same or similar circumstances?

Come join the conversation on our blog or go to the original posting on Devotionals Daily! They and we woul love to hear how you were comforted by the Most High and how you’re using your experience to comfort others!

~Devotionals Daily

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Find also to read:

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  2. Your struggles develop your strengths
  3. Pain and Suffering is inevitable but Misery is optional
  4. At first looking like a loss
  5. Not the circumstances in which we are placed constitutes our comfort
  6. Aligned
  7. What Jesus did: First things first
  8. The ultimate measure of a man is not where he stands
  9. Everything that is done in the world is done by hope
  10. Change
  11. Promise of a Comforter

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  • the God of All comfort (wherelivingbegins.wordpress.com) > original posting: the God of All comfort
    What if I told you that the God and Father of our Lord Jesus Christ is the God of All comfort and comforts us in All our afflictions?
  • My Comfort Food (brokenbelievers.com)
    God feeds us comfort food.  A true easiness and calm, imparted by Grace to our hearts. The Holy Spirit has a title on His desk– “The Comforter.” Why is He called that? Because that is what He specializes in and masters. He is our dear sufficiency and satisfaction, freely set on our tables.
  • 2 Corinthians 1-4 (erlangerbaptist.wordpress.com)
    Do you see it…we can comfort anyone who is struggling with anything, not because we have gone through it but because we have been comforted.  What does that mean?  It’s not about what we say…it’s about what he is capable of doing and has done in us!  God brings people across our path each day wanting to use us in a comforting way – let Him!!!
  • Our Father (citizenheaven.wordpress.com)
    Jesus answered, If a person [really] loves Me, he will keep My word [obey My teaching]; and My Father will love him, and We will come to him and make Our home (abode, special dwelling place) with him.

    John 14:22-24 (in Context)  John 14 (Whole Chapter)

  • Several Christians do mistake the meaning of the God who we do have to praise as our Supreme Redeemer. In  Lord, Bring Us Comfort (revcalebadams.wordpress.com) we can see how the writer intermixes two different figures; On the one hand he talks about the Spirit God, who is the Creator of heaven and earth. Next he makes the only begotten son of God, Jesus the heavenly Comforter. We must always remember that it is God who took care that Jesus was born and that after Jesus had proven that he was faithful to god, whose Will he wanted to do, Jehovah, the God of all made him higher than angels (Jesus was lower than them at first and God is and shall be for ever the Most High Almighty). It is the God of Christ Jesus Who should also be our God and Father. This God of the son we call ‘Christos’, He Himself and our lord Jesus Christ (the Messiah) should be our guide to our steps.
  • Mission Possible: A Marriage with A Purpose (braydenemerick.wordpress.com)
    God cares about your hurts, fears, and the hell you are walking through. He wants to walk through it with you. He said for us to cast our cares upon Him for He cares (Psalm 55:22). But there are reasons for our hurts and trials. James 1: 2- 4 states, “Consider it all joy, my brethren, when you encounter various trials, knowing that the testing of your faith produces endurance. And let endurance have its perfect result, so that you may be perfect and complete, lacking in nothing.”
  • Compassion (sandystrachan.wordpress.com)
    In  Jesus is the very essence of compassion and relational care. Christ challenges Christians to forsake their own desires and to act compassionately towards others, particularly those in need or distress.
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    True Christian compassion, say the Gospels , should extend to all, even to the extent of loving one’s enemies.
  • Self-praise vs God’s praise
    In the manifestation of our gifts, we have the words of Paul that it is God who works in us both to will and to do of his good pleasure (Philippians 2:13). We need to be careful to do what is right but not because we want the praise of men or have points on which to praise ourselves.